Posted by
vonryansexpress on Friday, May 22, 2009 12:46:49 PM
Memorial Day approaches. The day of remembrance is a three day holiday that Americans revel to celebrate with family, neighbors and friends. Amid the bunting and photo taking, the star-spangled hats and good barbeque, the holiday is emphasized while the dead remain at rest.
There have been attempts to put the poppy back in Memorial Day with congressional overtures that would set a day certain for the remembrance as opposed to the “last Monday in May” that generates the three day holiday that starts our American summer each year. For so many Americans, Memorial Day is three days and those three days are moments in the ‘Coppertone sun’.
Yet, our dead will not see the sun again. They will not feel a caress or hear the voices that fill the parks, beaches, rivers’ edge and American yards.
Every Memorial Day, across the nation and on foreign fields and islands afar, at military cemeteries and U.S. National Cemeteries, Memorial Day is observed by the Veterans Administration and the U.S. Military along with local posts of the Veterans of Foreign Wars. Here is where Memorial Day shines brightest.
Take your children, your parents, neighbors, friends to a National Cemetery this coming Memorial Day. There is likely one near you. If you must drive, take the initiative and go. Think of how much the day will mean to the families that gather at the grave side of their fallen ones to know that you came to give tribute as a citizen that knows what they lost. Your family will be made better for it.
If you do not have a military background, did not serve, did not live on post or base as a child, you are the most needed at a U.S. National Cemetery on Memorial Day. Each Memorial Day, the cemeteries are replete with color guards and valued speakers and those that we see loyally each year. We note the families of the new dead, the dwindling families of those that fell in the Pacific and European campaigns of W.W.II and Korea. We see the middle age friends and family of the Vietnam dead and the occasional grave visitor for the deceased of other smaller campaigns where harms way came home hard for one that did not come home. We need to see you.
If our civilian Americans come and join the boy and girl scouts that plant the American flag at each and every grave they will make the greatest statement of patriotism the non-combatant can make in his or her life. You will say by your presence, I did not know you, but today, I stand among you. Today, I stand with you. I will take my child’s hand we will walk in and around these stone markers and we will read the names and see the dates and see the names of spouses and we will call out those names and eternity will hear us and bless us for our care and our remembrance.
Wear the poppy pin this year and visit a National Cemetery on Monday Memorial Day.